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Doing things alone, more often illusion than truth

A little post for the perfectionist in ourselves.



"I have to be able to do this, on my own"


A thought fueled by the need for autonomy

Fueled by perfection


In our minds


Sometimes we think we should be able to do things “alone”


And, sometimes, we think that too much

Which makes life a little harder


So, here is a different light


Just a different thought


"We don't have to do anything alone"


Because we are always dependent on other/s


We either can't see or we don't want to see this


But if you think about it, it will surprise you


And maybe scare you


Dependency can have a huge impact on your quality of life.


But hey, we are


Let's make this thought a bit more balanced

"I would like help from others, but just as happy to help them"


We're helping, and being helped


Caring and being cared for


It sounds different, natural

That's it


Live long

Dependent

and happy


Sam


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